Passion, profession and dirty little secrets
July 9, 2010When you’re about to take a reluctant summer sabbatical, you want to step out on a high note. You want to leave wise words for anyone who happens by while you’re away, something a little more pithy than “Back soon, thanks for dropping by.”
This will be my last post until September. It’s a few days late (and for those of you who were wondering, yes, there are still issues with the feed).
As I sat working on a number of uninspiring first drafts, this little gem drifted by on my Twitter stream, from @Marelisa:
“It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.”
—Eleanor Roosevelt
And within minutes, from @escapeintolife:
“You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment. Fools stand on their island opportunities and look toward another land. There is no other land, there is no other life but this.”
— Henry David Thoreau
Puts a few things into perspective, doesn’t it.
If only it were as easy as tacking a couple of inspirational quotes on your bulletin board.
Let me share a little secret: sometimes I want to grab very talented people by their lapels, look deep into their eyes, show them all my teeth and say, “Will you just stop underselling yourself already? This is your freaking profession!”
But it’s not as easy as that, either. Plus scaring people isn’t great for business.
It’s not just how—it’s why
If you’ve followed The Studio Source for any length of time, you will have noticed a recurring theme. There are fewer step-by-step how-to marketing articles in favour of fixing faulty thinking, or shifting to your desired customer’s buying space. And for good reason.
You have to wrap your head around the emotional stuff—your own self-doubt as well as what is most appealing to your best customer.
We’re odd, neurotic creatures. All of us. Society’s attitude towards “artists” isn’t necessarily encouraging, either. Being an artist is a wonderful, sexy idea—until you claim it as your profession. Then the barbarian hordes either smile indulgently, as if you’re trying to learn to tie your own shoes, or treat you like some kind of money-sucking blight on the cultural landscape. To add insult to injury, after curling their collective lip at you, they happily trot off to HomeSense to buy some discounted factory-made piece of crap to stick on their walls or decorate their shelves.
Not that I have an opinion or anything.
It’s hard to move forward with that ugly movie playing in your head. Even the most inspiring how-tos turn thin and pale if you can only see the woman who thinks art is something she buys at the mall, or the guy who believes owning the latest version of PaintShop Photo Pro makes him a designer.
You really get into trouble when you lose sight of why you do what you do. Why you chose your profession, your self-created job, why you decided to build a real, sustainable business.
Commit
You hear the message to follow your passion, but that message is often a half-truth. It’s only partly true because passion is part of the picture. Choosing a profession means you get the whole pie, not just the juicy stuff in the middle. The idea of passion, like the idea of being an artist, isn’t enough. Too many of us, thoroughly trained to recite snappy slogans like mantras, confuse passion with pleasure. Because we don’t want to face the dirty secret about following your passion.
Passion—real, grown-up passion—is not always fun. Sometimes it’s damned hard. It can keep you up at night. Sometimes it can break your heart.
But it’s not supposed to be frolicking-in-the-meadow fun. That’s not what passion is about.
Passion is about sticking with it. It’s about doing everything necessary to make that last assault on the summit, push past mile 25, and kick over every obstacle you come to, even if your knees are bleeding and you’re scared to death.
Passion isn’t freedom from fear. Passion is bigger than fear.
Doing what you love doesn’t have to be about money
If you want to follow the pleasure path, enjoy your avocation. Pick it up whenever the mood strikes, dabble, shrug off the little setbacks, and don’t beat yourself up about it. It’s not necessary.
If you don’t want to turn your lifetime obsession into a job, with all the requirements of any viable business, don’t do it. Don’t even consider it.
I’m an avid gardener. No, that’s not true. I’m a rabid gardener. People have suggested I become a professional landscaper or start a greenhouse. It’ll never happen. I won’t turn something I do for myself into an obligation.
It’s not just pleasure. It’s hard work. But I get twitchy if I can’t do it.
And I don’t need to turn it into money. I have other ways to earn a living.
Respect your profession
I’ve lost track of the number of times I’ve reminded friends and colleagues they’re running a business. That other professionals don’t fret about pricing, or treat themselves and their work with disrespect. You can’t turn your work into a skeleton that won’t stay in the closet and expect to be successful. Or stay sane, for that matter.
Yes, I get it. The marketplace is big, bad and ugly. People make stupid comments, balk at prices, yadda yadda.
Those people aren’t your customers. Their passion lives in another place. Walmart, maybe. Or reality TV.
Forget them.
Find the people who get what you do. The people who want good stuff, not cheap stuff. Their passion lives where you do.
Have your say
Are you guilty of underpricing? Are you secretly (or not so secretly) nervous about your work? What would turn that around? What made you choose your profession?

Stacey…wonderful entry, as usual. I find myself coming back to read and reread and frequently post the URL to entries on Facebook. Your entry on not trying to please everyone was a big hit in the course of one discussion. I’d like to thank you for all the common sense, cheering on and your firm grip on the realities of trying to run a small business. Oh. And not least of all, how often you crack me up. Have a great summer. I’ll be looking forward to your next entry in September.
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
July 9th, 2010 at 1:16 pm
Thanks, Linda. I’m glad it resonates. Trying to please “everyone” is such a huge trap. Your valuable time and energy is so much better spent on your best customers.
I hope you enjoy your summer, too.
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Actually, I appreciate being grabbed by my lapel and shaken up on occasion. Not scary… necessary! ‘Working’ on my passion today
Enjoy they Summer!
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
July 9th, 2010 at 1:18 pm
All righty, then, I’ll work on my virtual lapel-grabbing! Thanks for the comment, Scott. Nice to see you here.
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Stacey, what a wonderful send-off. You bring a great perspective to the creative professions. Love the Home Sense reference. So true! My competition is Ikea. $99 4×6 foot fabric photo wall hangings.
I struggle with whether my photography is art, but when I’m taking photos I’m in the *zone* – that dimension of pure creativity. How can that be anything *but* art?
Happy summer.
p.s. I shall be visiting your region in less than a week. Halifax, then a cottage near Risser’s Beach. Can’t wait!
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
July 9th, 2010 at 1:59 pm
Well, as far as competition goes, Ikea isn’t in the running. I buy art from people (and occasionally cool galleries), not chain stores.
Risser’s Beach is lovely. I hope you get a chance to visit the farmers market when you’re in Halifax – it’s berry season. Nothing like it
Thanks for the comment, Marlene, and welcome. Hope to “see” you again soon.
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Marlene Hielema Reply:
July 9th, 2010 at 2:43 pm
Yes, we only buy original art too, but few
people do!
People love my large canvas wraps but I’m
competing with the Ikea mindset.
My second trip to NS and Risser’s Beach too!
My sister in-law lives a few steps away from
the market on Lower Water Street! Loved it!
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Stacey: excellent as always! For now enjoy your garden, watch the hummingbirds, follow the path of the butterflies as they flit from flower to flower. Rest your soul, and above all FEEL BETTER!
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
July 9th, 2010 at 3:24 pm
I will print your marching orders, Carole, and post them across my computer screen. Thank you, my friend.
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Great post, Stacey! Glad I found your blog!
Yes, I’m guilty of frequent underpricing, and I know it. I’m one of the higher-charging professionals in my field (calligraphy, ketubah art, invitation design) in my part of the world (SF Bay Area), and sometimes I actually get paid really well for a project. But I never know how.. ahem.. difficult a client will be, so it’s always a crap shoot. Plus it’s a generally low-priced field, populated primarily by women who tend to undervalue our work to begin with, a lot of whom don’t think of themselves as “real artists,” which pulls the value curve even further down. And since I price by the project, when I get a hard-to-please client I end up eating it, big time.
(Clearly I need to work on my pricing policies…)
Meanwhile, although the above is my bread-and-butter income, my *real* goal is to get out of the “exchanging time for money” game altogether, and find the Right People who want the creative stuff I have to offer (art, music, writing). Or at least to get to a point where I don’t need to be art-directed in order to pay my mortgage, and can charge the kind of dollars I think my time is really worth. I want to make the creative stuff I want to make, and find my audience, rather than making stuff to order. Still working on this one…
Whenever I complain of being underpaid, my mom (and others) keep reminding me “Well, with this economy you *can’t* charge higher rates!” I’m in enough of a fear state that I stay cowed, even though part of me also doubts it’s really true… :-\
Looking forward to reading more of your posts!
Melissa
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Well, I’ve reread your post again this morning. The first time it was like a kick in the pants but a welcome one. You’ve really gone out with a bang.
Reading what you’ve written about passion I’m reminded of all the artist biographies I’ve read (de Kooning, Rothko etc) and how difficult some of their lives were because they believed in their art, themselves, and what they were trying to do. Even in the face of public rejection, poverty and illness, they soldiered on.
My life doesn’t compare to theirs but I have my own issues and you seem to find them in each of your posts. I’m guilty of all that you write about.
However, I’ve taken my promotional packages out again and will send a few to galleries. No risk of rejection if you don’t make the effort.
I’ve upped the prices of the big paintings considerably and they’re selling. Even better than before. Don’t know if it’s the work or reverse psychology. The pricier the work, the better certain people sometimes think it is. The little ones have seen a small increase, too. And I can barely keep these paintings around long enough to get them photographed. With the combination of encaustic and my bowls, I seem to have tapped into something that not only excites me but that please the marketplace as well.
Through all this mental re-organization, re-thinking and change in attitude, your wise words, both in person and on your blog, have been essential. Actually more than essential. Without you I probably would have continued on as I was. I still have a long way to go but I think I’m on the right road. I’ll miss your little voice (big, really) in my head pushing me on so, out of sheer selfishness, I hope you’re back in the fall. Thank you, Stacey.
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
July 14th, 2010 at 1:20 pm
Thank *you* Lynn. My biggest dirty little secret is I’ve been guilty of most of the things I write about. So I really get it. And I can’t tell you how great it is to know it’s helping, even a little.
Many congratulations on your accomplishments. It’s a process, and requires practice, but the more we do it, the easier it gets. I’m thrilled to know your sales are on an upswing. Rock on, lady.
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