What do you think of when you hear the word “networking?” If you’re even slightly inclined towards introversion, you might experience an involuntary twitch. If you’re a card-carrying hard core introvert, you might find yourself wanting to curl into a fetal position.
I fall somewhere in the middle. In a straight up business situation, I’m fine. If you invite me to a swanky social event, don’t be surprised if you find me in the kitchen, talking about Bugs Bunny cartoons or car repairs with one of the catering guys. Working the room? Not likely. I’m the type who likes to have big conversations and big laughs with very small groups of people. I can talk business. I can’t do social networking.
At least I thought I couldn’t.
Enter Twitter. There are highly respected bloggers who have written posts about being late to the game. They say they didn’t get Twitter at first, but figured it out fast. What they say about how great Twitter is makes sense, but social media—still intimidating for an introvert.
I asked a friend if she had a Twitter account. She quipped, “You mean it’s not only about Ashton and Demi?”
Not if you do it right.
My first tweet was October 28, 2009. “Editing is easier than starting from scratch. Not so much writer’s block as the intimidation of the big blank canvas.”
I note with a small amount of pride that I didn’t talk about what I was having for dinner.
The real surprise, 442 tweets later, is it was nearly effortless. Twitter is a giant candy store filled to overflowing with ideas. For many creatives, ideas are like oxygen. It’s hard to resist.
I can’t recall where the connection was made, but Josh Frankel has become my dealer—for design, typography and illustration ideas. Fellow NSCAD alum Terri Robin Vernon gives me a fine art fix. I’ll likely never interact with him (360,000+ followers), but I follow Tim Siedell, a.k.a. Bad Banana, for brilliant one-liners and a master class in sarcasm. His website is pretty great, too.
Some Twitter users track key words in your tweets and auto-follow you. That can be irritating, but sometimes it pays off. You can block the spammy followers, and watch the ones that seem promising.
One of those individuals posted a link to a video at the Museum of the History of Science in Oxford. The video is a five-minute intro to a Steampunk exhibition. Go watch it, it’s fascinating.
I emailed the link to a former university roommate who is working on a PhD in Art History. He forwarded it to a colleague, who is writing about Steampunk in her thesis. She hadn’t heard about the exhibition. She was glad to get the information, he enjoyed looking smart, and I was happy someone found it useful.
Over the past two days I helped someone who was having trouble formatting an e-newsletter, and someone gave me a hand with some copy I’m working on. Favours freely offered in both cases.
Welcome to social networking.
If you’re not a social type, it might take you a minute to realize you’re actually doing it. It’s not that it’s happening, it’s the scale. You can interact with a surprising number of people in a very short time.
You don’t need a complicated plan to make the most of Twitter. You don’t need an account to see what people are saying. Visit websites and look for a link to Twitter. You can try a few galleries, museums or arts organizations, people who write blogs you read, or who are on forums or membership sites you belong to. You’ll only see one side of the conversation, but you can read announcements and follow links to websites.
Once you have an account, follow the people and organizations you like, and grow organically from there. Finding people who are doing cool work is not an agonizing process. Go to Listorious and put in a key word (you don’t need a Twitter account for that).
Let people know when you have a new blog post, or new work, or a show, but don’t make it all about you. Tweet and retweet (as in, tell your followers what someone else is up to) what’s interesting or relevant, and sometimes the person who posted the original tweet will check out what you’re doing and follow you—or you’ll follow them. Or you can follow each other.
The speed of the information flow can be astonishing.
Twitter might not be the best place for you to connect with people. Everybody’s a little different. You’ll likely not see me on Facebook anytime soon. But if you think Twitter is just a place for senseless babbling, you might be missing out on something good.
What’s your favourite way to connect? What’s your favourite social networking venue? Is social networking valuable to you?

Twitter has been an amazing way for me to learn about so many things without having to dig through pages of a Google search. I have found a group of like-minded people who do the legwork at getting me in touch with ideas, articles, people, sites, friends I may have never known. It’s a dream!
It can also feel like the fast train to narcissism. Well, I hate to say it (actually, not really) but we are all concerned with ourselves, our well being, our growth. So, embrace the cringe-worthy aspects of Twitter and forgive others and yourself when you self promote.
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
January 21st, 2010 at 11:15 am
Self-promotion is fine, as long as you’re not hitting people over the head with it. Passing ideas along to others is the real beauty of it.
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Well, Stacey, if you say so. . . I haven’t read anything on twitter that makes any sense. Who are Ashton and Demi?
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
January 21st, 2010 at 11:11 am
You don’t have a television, do you, Sally. Keeps the brain uncluttered.
Have a look at http://twitter.com/MuseumModernArt Some of it won’t make sense, but there are lots of useful pieces of information.
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Having spent half an hour trying to join twitter made me grumpy. Still don’t know if I’m joined or not.
As you point out, pop culture references are lost on me.
Good grief, I don’t have TIME for television! I had one once but it seemed like a noisy, intrusive stranger so I returned it to the friend who had given it to me.
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
January 21st, 2010 at 11:31 am
Getting used to a new tool, or new medium, can be frustrating. Give yourself some time with it and see how it goes.
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I have the same problems as you do – I am an introvert in large crowds, although I do pretty decent in one-on-ones. However, I do have a fear of the phone, and I don’t “get out” very much.
Twitter has changed my life. Someone who at one point during their freelance career only interacted with their only other freelance friend every day, all day… is now connected to many friends and meeting more every day.
Great article!
For those of you who are new to twitter, there are some great resources in this article:
http://www.outlawdesignblog.com/2009/30-essential-twitter-tutorials-for-newbies-and-experts/
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
January 21st, 2010 at 2:04 pm
Phones. Yes. When mine rings, I look at it as if it’s an enraged scorpion. I’m downright sociable when I can hide behind my keyboard.
Thanks for the link to the Twitter tutorials, Sarah, that’s a great resource.
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Great article, Stacey. Yes, Twitter is a great medium for us introverts. I’ve met ( in person) and “met” (virtually) some great folks here, both near and far. Some conversations graduated to email and phone. I’ve seen some gorgeous creative work. I landed a paying copywriting gig and got a referral for more work. I’ve read intriguing blogs, learned new things. I’ve gained blog followers who leave insightful comments on my blog, “Printing Disasters—and How to Avoid Them.” It’s been a great tool for me. I can get quite sucked in and spend WAY too much time on Twitter. Sometimes I wonder how much the Twitter traffic will drop off when the un- and underemployed Tweeters land jobs! ~Nani
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Sorry to be so late in commenting! I just want to say that Twitter has done wonders for my blog… People can follow you on Twitter,with no real commitment, then if they like what they see, they go on to become a subscriber of the blog. It really works!
I love the telephone! yes, I wait for it to ring (which it does SO much less now with email), and I love to work a crowd, but even for me Twitter is such a great new social tool.
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
January 23rd, 2010 at 2:42 pm
I imagine social media was a complete thrill for the extroverts in the crowd. I’ve seen in increase in blog traffic due to Twitter as well. It’s a great way to get the word out fast.
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Stacey….you may have persuaded me to give Twitter a try. My biggest fear is that I will get lost in twitterland the same way I can get lost reading blogs and looking at Ebay listings. I am awed and inspired by Steampunk…thanks for opening up a whole new realm of thought and ideas.
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
January 23rd, 2010 at 2:48 pm
I know, Kathy. Sometimes I get caught up in the deluge of information, too. It’s just a matter of setting time limits. And sticking to them. Maybe put a note on your monitor to remind you when to get back to work… which I really have to do for myself.
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Twitter has been an amazing way for me to learn about so many things without having to dig through pages of a Google search. I have found a group of like-minded people who do the legwork at getting me in touch with ideas, articles, people, sites, friends I may have never known. It’s a dream!
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Stacey Cornelius Reply:
January 25th, 2010 at 12:26 pm
I couldn’t agree more. Google searches drive me crazy. By connecting on Twitter, I don’t have to slog through all the irrelevant information. It’s a huge time-saver.
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